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As a dog trainer <\/a>who travels the country training dogs and working with 20-30 families a week in their homes it is so important for folks to understand how a dog thinks. And when there is no authority figure present, the kind of chaos and bad behavior that can happen. Remember the bad behavior of your dog is not the problem it is just the outcome of a breakdown of leadership in your home.<\/em>
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LA dog training<\/a> colleague Sean O\u2019Shea from The Good Dog Training and Rehabilitation puts out such a great blog that I am going to start featuring it here on my<\/em>
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How Are You Doing?<\/h2>\n

By Sean O’Shea<\/h2>\n

When we start to have problems with our dog\u2019s behavior we naturally focus on our dog. It\u2019s natural \u2013 the dog is doing something wrong, what\u2019s wrong with him? Why won\u2019t he stop barking? Why is he attacking Aunt Ethel? Why are my dogs fighting? Why does he always destroy the house when I leave? Why does he try to attack every dog on a walk? It\u2019s normal to try and problem solve by focusing on the problem at hand, but problems are usually just the result of other issues left untended to, that have now grown into bigger problems.It\u2019s easy for us to focus on our dogs, but oftentimes the better and far more valuable question is: How are YOU doing? This is usually the best place to start and the last place examined.If you honestly assess yourself, what percentage of the day do you spend being anxious, stressed, guilty, resentful, sad, fearful, needy, impatient, conflicted, angry, manic, depressed or worried, vs peaceful, calm, relaxed, confident, happy, assured, positive, patient and balanced?If you\u2019ve spent any prolonged time with a person in any of these negative states, you know how uncomfortable, draining, and agitating the experience can be. Our dogs feel the same way \u2013 except they aren\u2019t able to leave for a breath of fresh air \u2013 they simply have to stay, endure, and absorb all of the negative energy.<\/p>\n

Two things happen when our dogs are repeatedly exposed to this kind of negative human energy: First, it has a profound effect on their fundamental state \u2013 because they are forced to live in an uncomfortable emotional environment, they become heavily stressed, and this stress will cause them to engage in all manner of negative\/neurotic behaviors. These behaviors can range from chronic barking and licking, to serious aggression. You cannot force an animal to consistently live in a toxic environment and not expect some serious behavioral fallout.And second, by presenting yourself as an unbalanced, unsafe, inconsistent, unpredictable human, there is no way that your dog can allow you to lead him \u2013 it simply makes no sense \u2013 why would a dog, or anyone else for that matter, follow an emotionally unstable leader? And if a dog has no leader, he will become stressed from the pressure of having to try to lead, and from the absence of guidance.<\/p>\n

So the negative impact on your dog is compounded by both of these dynamics \u2013 and the effect is fairly staggering.<\/p>\n

Because our dogs cannot speak verbally, they become convenient scape goats and unfortunate victims of our unresolved issues. But the truth is, if you watch your dog, you\u2019ll see in his behavior \u2013 whether balanced, comfortable and happy, or unbalanced, uncomfortable and stressed \u2013 \u00a0that he\u2019s speaking volumes about you and the environment you\u2019ve created for him.<\/p>\n

So if things have gotten dicey or problematic with your dog, it might be a good time to sit back and ask: How are YOU doing?<\/p>\n

The Good Dog Training and Rehabilitation 4867 Bellflower Ave. North Hollywood, CA 91601 (818) 441-1837<\/p>\n

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